“A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he’s not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he’s showing up at your new residence to do it in person … if he’s not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you. Stop taking his calls and let him know what it’s like to live without you…No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.”
— He’s Just Not That Into You
Excuse me while I cry.
I had a terrible, awful day, and this just made it so much better. Amazing!
& I actually have a print of one of her quotes in my cubicle:
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” Yess.